Meet Virginia

Virginia Slutu relationship coach

I am truly passionate about everything related to relationships. After spending over a decade working in law, I made a big shift into couples coaching—something I did after searching high and low for tools and strategies to help my own relationship through a tough time. My personal journey led me to discover so many incredible, life-changing resources from relational, embodied, somatic and spiritual modalities, and these are the tools I now share with my clients.

Along the way, I have trained with some amazing teachers and programs that have shaped my approach, including COR (Leadership Development Training), the Hendricks Institute (Conscious Loving Advanced Training, Evolutionary Playground), Eckhart Tolle (Becoming a Teacher of Presence), and EmbodyLab (Somatic Attachment Therapy). I am also an RLT (Relational Life Therapy) Certified Relational Coach through Terry Real’s Relational Life Institute, a graduate of SOMATICA’s Sex and Relationship Coaching Core Training and currently training with George Haas's Mettagroup (Meditation x Attachment Certification Program).

My background in law brings a unique level of thoroughness to the work I do, and I truly care about helping couples see each other’s perspectives more clearly. Having been through my own relationship crisis, I bring a lot of practical experience and compassion to my work. I know how hard it can be when things aren’t going well in a relationship, and I’m here to help partners reconnect, communicate better and rediscover the joy in being together.

I believe that with the right support and willingness, any couple—no matter their background, orientation, or history—can build a stronger, more loving, and fulfilling relationship. I work with people with all kinds of relationship and sexual preferences and orientations - including monogamous, ethically non-monogamous; whether exploring kink/BDSM, celibacy/abstinence or any other sexual practices; LGBTQIA2S+.

Fun fact: If you work with me, you may notice my accent! I have Moldovan roots, and I’ve lived in Moldova, France, and Australia before settling in San Francisco, California.

It’s an honor to help couples and individuals on their journey toward stronger, more connected relationships that bring joy, intimacy, and lasting fulfillment.